28. Her friends might tell you clues

Read more about signs she is interested but shy here.

But at the same time she tells me stuff about her boyfriend and ex’s on what they did that made her mad and others like the things she like about them. And she also she I pay more attention to her then her actual boyfriend. But the big problem is the girl I like is my best friend girlfriend. So lastly I don’t know if she is just using me to babysit her kid or if she actual likes me. So could use all the help I can get.

In the same chapter, Hussey notes that most men are pretty clueless at picking up body language. As such, he tells women that flashing a guy a quick glance across the room isn’t enough, because, for all he knows, she might just be looking for the bathroom or scanning the room. He advises women to give two looks, one in which she locks eyes with him for a half-second, then looks away, and then a second look in which she locks eyes again and smiles. Regardless of whether or not she’s read the book, when a woman does this at a party or in a bar, it’s almost certainly a sign that she wants you to come talk to her.

What does this mean? Girls won’t just touch any guy unless she likes him. If you notice that your female friend does this to you, then take it as a sign that she’s interested in you more than just a friend.

(You might also thank her, because this can be a great way to meet new, qualified people.) Girls who are interested in you are going to want to keep you for themselves, not pass you off to her single girlfriends. Remain honest and open, both to her feelings and to the possibilities. This is a huge red flag. Mentioning a guy she’s interested in, or a guy she’s dating, no matter how casually, communicates that she probably doesn’t think of you romantically.

Signal #18 – She will halt conversing with her friends to talk with you

• Talking about the other women you’re seeing can elicit a response that will help you understand how she feels about you.
• Of course, it’s your responsibility to create that sexual chemistry between the two of you through touch and playful teasing.
• If a girl does not usually hug her other friends but hugs you a lot, then it can’t be denied that she likes you.

Similarly, if she breaks plans with you more than once in a short span of time, that’s a sign she’s not interested. Keeping plans with you might not seem like that big of a deal — for many people, that can seem like basic courtesy — but a girl who keeps plans usually likes the person she’ll be seeing. If she doesn’t, she’d find a reason to cancel or else just totally flake on you, a universal sign that she’s just not that interested. It’s a simple act, but letting you walk or drive her home (or just walk her to her car) can be a sign of interest.

Every girl has a different sense of style, and not all girls will try to dress as aforementioned when they like somebody. However, if you notice that the girl you’re wondering about dresses a little more nicely around you, it could be a sign that she wants to impress you.

Girls who are interested in guys will go out of their way to make themselves look nice. So if she looks like she just rolled out of bed every time the two of you have plans, she might not be that into you. But if she looks really put together, she might well be signalling her sexual and romantic interest in you.

Does she always find an excuse to talk to you or text you? Does she always offer you coffee in the office? Maybe she always texts you in the morning? She may not do this to her other friends, but she always makes an effort to talk to you.

She usually seems happy when talking to me. I haven’t seen her act the way she does around other guys. I asked her to hangout once and she said yes. She brought a friend but she said she was fine if it was just her and I. When I was hanging out with them, a girl I know passed by and I told them that I knew them.

If a girl allows you to see the side of her she doesn’t reveal to anyone else, consider it a huge sign of her affection. So how to know if a girl likes you when you’re spending a lot of time one on one? One of the most telling signs that adores you is when she starts mirroring your movements and behavior.